So, it is a Small World After All

Sometime ago, I was invited to provide Pulpit Replacement for United Church of Christ in Sun City. The regular pastor, Pastor  Hal Lingerman was taking the month of August off, and the church was looking for someone to preach, hence, provide Pulpit Replacement.

I like to preach, and I appreciate the challenge of preaching from the Lectionary… So I agreed to preach on Sunday August 15th. The Lectionary readings for that day included Hebrews 11:29-12:2… a discussion on the Faith of Ancient Israeli Heroes. So, I decided that “Heroes” would be an appropriate title, and I decided to talk about how our Youth Workers (including Youth Ministers, Youth Group Advisors, Youth Directors, Youth Counselors, Camp Counselors, etc., etc.) are heroes in their own right, as well as being a chief contributor to helping develop new heroes. So, yesterday was the day, and my daughter Annalise and her friend Nicki (who sometimes seems to be one of my daughters) joined me at UCC Sun CIty

I had been asked to provide a short bio so the congregation would know who I am… So I included that in the beginning of my message.  I included in the bio that I was born and raised in the town of Greenfield set in Western Massachusetts.

During the course of my message, I was drawing connections between a Youth Leader in my life (Bill Salt) and how that relationship profoundly affected my participation in Youth Ministry.

My message seemed to be well received by the good people of UCC Sun City (or they were just very gracious). As I greeted people after worship, I heard a number of “good sermon” and “great message” until one very nice woman who introduced herself as Ruth said that she too was from Greenfield, MA! She was very surprised and delighted to hear that I was from there.

After worship, the church was celebrating the birthdays of three members of the church who were all turning 100 years old! Wow; that is so awesome! Anyway, the celebration included lunch, and I was invited… so, as I was making my way to the fellowship hall, I ended up in several different conversations with folk on a variety of subjects. The very nice woman from Greenfield (Ruth) offered to fix me a plate, but I declined knowing that I would get a chance. Eventually, I sat down with Annalise and Nicki and some women from the church. Ruth joined us as well, and we chatted some more. As it turns out, this very nice woman, Ruth is the mother of a fellow that I graduated High School with, none other than Rand Folta! Rand is one of my friends on Facebook!

Ruth Goodwin-Folta (Rand's Mom)

Later, as we were making our way to leave, Ruth was talking with these two gentlemen. As it turns out, they are brothers, and one lives in Sun City, and the other in New Jersey. They asked about Bill Salt from my sermon… So, I told them how Bill had entered seminary later in life, and attended Bangor Theological Seminary which at the time had a program that allowed you to earn your M.Div. even without a BA, and finish your BA later. Once completed, you could move on to ordination… Anyway, these two brothers, Jim and Bill Wilson and Shirley Wilson were very excited, because after Bill was ordained, he took a call to a church in New Jersey and lived very close to these brothers!

These events really remind me of just how small and close our world can be. Also, we should always speak well of others because we are unaware of the relationships that exist out there, and you never know when you’ll be talking to someone’s son, brother, neighbor, mother, father, and on and on.

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About Neal Washburn
Neal grew up in Greenfield, Massachusetts and was a member of First Congregational Church in Greenfield. He was also a youth member of the Massachusetts UCC United Church Youth Council. Neal spent many years working with the Mass Conference Outdoor Ministries. Neal and his wife Pamela moved to Southern New Hampshire, became a member of First Church Nashua, and again spent many years serving with the New Hampshire UCC Conference Outdoor Ministries as a counselor, unit leader, and member of the OM Board of Directors. Professionally, Neal is an Information Systems Engineer with the MITRE Corporation. In 2004 Neal, Pam, and their children Whitney, Evan and Annalise relocated to Southern California so Neal could support the local MITRE office in San Diego. Neal and his family joined the First Congregational Church of Escondido and Neal became involved with Christian Education teaching Confirmation Classes. In 2005 Neal became a volunteer counselor at Pilgrim Pines working with the Conference Youth Ministries Camp (CYMC). Soon after, Neal became one of the adult advisors to the Conference’s Youth Roundtable. Neal has been a counselor and dean at Junior High JANboree and FEB Camp; and a counselor and co-director of CYMC. In September of 2008, Neal became the Youth and Young Adults Ministries Coordinator for the Southern California Nevada Conference of the UCC.

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